Tomorrow R & J (our ex-pastor and wife) are moving from the big 'Ville. It's very sad and I feel like there are so many unresolved things surrounding this whole big ugly situation. I have a sinking feeling that R & T (the other woman) are going to run off together. I asked Walter tonight how long it's going to take before we heal from this huge affair/betrayal/loss of friendship/loss of pastor/etc? It's been a year since the affair started and it is still something that comes to our thoughts and discussions so often. I guess it's because all of our lives were so wrapped up in each others. I just want to cry. You would think that as time goes on it would ease, but with this weekend being a ending in a way it's just so sad. Whoever thought that our once-beloved pastor would sneak off into the night out of town - unrepentant and so far from God?